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The 30 Day Challenge; Day 5 - Things you want to say to an ex

I have just 2 questions, and I hope I get answers...
  •  Why did you lie to me?
  • I thought we were friends, what changed that???
The things I want to say, and know I can never have the guts to say to your face:

I really hope you have "grown up" cuz you were such a baby back then! Could it have been because we were the same age, and women tend to need a more mature person? Or was it just the way it was meant to be? There were little things you should have done and things you should never have done or said. I wanted to call it quits by the end of the first month, but I was convinced otherwise by "she" and heaven knows I tried! I know I am not perfect, and that you have a few things to say to me about "who I was" back then. (I wish you would).
Your lie is something I pray to get over. (I hate lies). I am really glad it was already over when I discovered you had lied, because, truth be told, I do not know what I would have done...

I am no longer angry, bitter - maybe a little - but I learned a lot of things from you  - good and bad - in the brief 5 months we shared...and I am wiser, because I firmly believe know that no knowledge gained is ever wasted.

I am also glad we didn't put up a fight and we parted "amicably". It just wasn't meant to be, I see that now...

Have a nice life!

Comments

  1. @ilolaAugust 23, 2011 at 6:58 AM

    Uhm! Word

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  2. MyneAugust 23, 2011 at 6:30 PM

    Those two questions are also with a lot of people wanting closure.

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  3. UnknownAugust 25, 2011 at 7:46 AM

    did u ask him the questions? what wia his answers?

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  4. A-9ja-GreatAugust 25, 2011 at 8:22 AM

    I hope he gets to read this!

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  5. shodipo kunleAugust 26, 2011 at 4:53 PM

    waoh! ema-licious in word mode. i feel 4d guy! open expressions tho!

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  6. SpeshAugust 27, 2011 at 7:50 PM

    These questions are just right. getting answers to them however.....*sigh*

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