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Love, Life and Leadership: Lessons from King David

 Hello, wonderful people!

How are you all doing? How did the week treat you? I hope youā€™ve gotten the cream of everything nice. Were those meetings stressful? Did that colleague annoy you? Did you meet those deadlines? How far with that target? Donā€™t worryā€”the weekend is finally here, so relax! Grab a seat, prop your feet up, get that glass of wine (or water), and just breathe!

If last week was stressful, I didnā€™t know what was coming this week. It feels like events hit me right in the face, and the force spun me around in a new direction. But don't worry, I'm not here to unload on you. I just wanted to let you know that all is well. If you think your week was tough, best believe that someone else probably had it worse, so letā€™s be thankful! I hope Psalm 20:2 comes true for you - May God send you help in times of trouble.

This week, countless ideas have been buzzing in my mind for different projects Iā€™m working on this season of my life. I need grace and strength to sort them out and bring them to life. My hope is to be a vessel this yearā€”one that helps others.

Unfortunately, sometimes, I also have to deal with imposter syndrome. The voice in my head often shouts, telling me that Iā€™m not fit to do certain things. But thankfully, I hear the still, reassuring voice of God reminding me of 2 Corinthians 12:9ā€”ā€œMy grace is sufficient for you...,ā€ and this gives me the comfort and strength to keep moving forward.

On a more somber note, an alarming number of friends lost a parent this past week, and it was deeply sad. I know itā€™s the circle of life, but those moments when we mourn with friends can be hard on a person. Please pray for strength for them as they navigate these tough times.

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This week, we read about King Davidā€™s final days or years. Despite his sins (Bathsheba, the census), David was largely without scandal in his lifetime. As I read through 1st & 2nd Samuel (and now into 1st Kings), I realized that although David was an exemplary leader, a mighty warrior, and a valiant man, he wasnā€™t the best father. He ruled with the strength and confidence of someone who was self-aware, loved God beyond words, and cared deeply for the people he led. But he missed the mark when it came to being a father. And I think thereā€™s an important lesson here for all of us. No one is perfect, and Godā€™s people are not exempt from imperfections. Despite his greatness, David had flaws, and sometimes, he was blind to themā€”especially when it came to those he loved.

Hereā€™s the second takeaway: We need to depend on God to avoid Davidā€™s mistakes, especially as parents and leaders. And in his final days, David, despite being king, was still humanā€”he asked his son Solomon to do the difficult things he couldnā€™t. Iā€™ve read this before, but this time, I had a deeper understanding and couldnā€™t help but ask: Why didnā€™t David handle it himself? Why pass on those tasks to Solomon? Iā€™m still reflecting on this, and it gives me a lot to ponder. Have you read about this in the scripture? What do you think about it?

On a lighter note, I watched Omoni Oboliā€™s Love in Every Word last weekend, and I absolutely loved it! Odogwu Paranran was smooth, and I was so happy for Chioma! Love is sweet, and Iā€™m all for itā€”every single day.

So, what about you? How did your week go? Did anything exciting happen? Iā€™d love to hear all about it in the comments section. Please share with me, and letā€™s chat!

P.S. Donā€™t forget to follow Almaā€™s journey as she travels 7 continents in 70 hours.


What, then, shall we say in response to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us?
ā€”Romans 8:31

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